Online Safety Information

It is becoming evermore important to keep up to date with online safety information to ensure that students understand how to be safe when they are surfing the internet and using their media devices. It is important that students understand the dangers that they could face when they are online and also how to protect themselves from it. Our aim is to provide our students with the tools they need to be able to recognise the potential dangers before they actually happen. 

If you would like to discuss the content of the online safety section of the Westlands School website, then please contact our Lead Safeguarding Officer -Mr Gary Sayers. He will be happy to assist with any queries whether it is for advice or for information you would like to see included in this section. You can contact him directly via email by clicking here, or call the main school telephone number and ask to speak to Mr Gary Sayers.
 

CEOP

The CEOP website allows you to make reports about anything concerning that is internet based. This could be anything such as offensive material, online abuse or any concerns about a child. Any reports made to CEOP are treated with high importance by specialists trained how to offer help and advice to parents and children. They may also pass on important information to the police or the school agencies if this is a necessary step. 

CEOP also has its own channel on YouTube where there are educational films and resources that are used in schools and which can be used by parents in supporting their child’s education. 

Similarly, there are a range of links on this website which can take you to other websites such as the NSPCC.  


Helpful guidance for parents/carers: Safeguarding Your Child Online

Talking to your child about online safety

It is recommended that you speak regularly to your child about what they’re doing online or who they might be speaking to.  Starting this conversation can be difficult, so it is important to remember that for young people online life often feels like real life.  Sometimes, it can be easier for children to talk to their parents/carers about awkward subjects when they are doing something else as well, such as walking together, eating together, sharing a car journey, or doing something practical together such as gardening.  

Talking about it could make a young person feel uncomfortable, worried, annoyed or confused as it may feel you are intruding on their privacy.  But talking regularly, like you would about their day at school, will help your child feel relaxed and mean they are more likely to come and speak to you if they are worried.  When starting a conversation it may help to:

 

  • Reassure them that you’re interested in their life, online and offline.  Recognise how important and valuable the internet is and how you both use it.

  • Ask your child to show you what they enjoy doing online and which apps they use so you can understand them.

  • Recognise that young people tend to turn to social media when feeling lonely or have poor mental health.  This puts them at higher risk of being groomed online.

  • Be positive and open about how you feel.  Phrases such as “I think this site is really good” or “I’m a little worried about things I have seen here” might be helpful.

  • Let them know they can come to you and ask if they are worried or confused about anything.

  • Ask them about their online friends, how they met and how your child knows who they say they are.

  • If you don’t think apps or sites are suitable, listen to your child’s reasons for wanting to use them and talk about this together.

  • Talk about how pictures, videos or comments that are posted online can be very difficult to remove and rarely remain private.

  • Discuss the pressures for young people to send inappropriate or indecent images to each including nudes or semi-nudes. How might this behaviour affect their relationship? Do they know what they would do?

  • Discuss how images can be copied, saved and shared without their knowledge and if they are under 18, they are also breaking the law by making and sending a nude or semi-nude picture of themselves or others.

  • Improve your own knowledge by finding out about some of the issues your child could experience. 

Setting some house rules to keep the whole family safe online

It may be beneficial to discuss and agree as a family how the internet will be used in your house.

Let your child tell you what they think is acceptable and isn’t for them to do online, such as being nasty to people, keeping personal information private and speaking to an adult when they are worried. Then add your own rules like how long they are allowed to spend online and not using cameras in bedrooms.

  • Make sure that your child understands that their actions and behaviours online can have offline consequences.

  • Agree on sanctions for breaking the rules.

  • You might find it helpful to write these ‘ground rules’ down as a visual reminder.

Remember these are whole family rules, so consider your own use of the internet and lead by example.  Consider how much information you are sharing on your social networks about your child and who can see it.

Keeping your child safe: your knowledge and control measures

Make the most of the parental controls on your child’s internet-enabled devices and games consoles.

  • Make sure you apply parental controls to all internet devices in your household. They can restrict access to inappropriate content and can help you manage how much time your child spends online. 

  • Make sure your child understands that parental controls are in place to protect them, not restrict them; some children will actively work around parental controls if they feel constrained without knowing why.

  • Find out about the apps your child is using.  Better Internet for Kids covers most the popular apps young people are currently using.

  • Set up filters on internet search engines to limit the likelihood of your children accidentally coming across inappropriate content when searching online. 

  • Be aware that internet history can be hidden and deleted, so make sure you talk to your children. 

  • Remember that filters will never be 100% effective so you cannot rely on them alone to protect your children. It is important that your children understand that they should tell you straight away if they come across something inappropriate or upsetting online.

It is important to monitor your child’s behaviour, mood and presentation as any changes could be an indication that something is upsetting your child online.  Children who are groomed, radicalised or exploited online will often be pressured to withdraw from family and friends.


The following websites can also provide helpful information:
 

Think U Know

This website is run by CEOP and provides you with information and resources based on the age of the person accessing the website.

 

Childnet International

This website, like CEOP has a range of materials that can be accessed to get advice and can be used with your child to teach them internet safety.

 

NSPCC

This website can be used to get advice and understanding about child abuse and how to prevent it. It also gives you information about where to go if you need to report an incident and further internet safety advice.

 

Kent Police

Obviously it is really important for you and your child to know the law regarding behaviour. The Kent Police website has everything you will need to know about internet safety and the law.

 

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